When She Is Wet But Not Aroused (Or Dry But Aroused)
Arousal non-concordance can lead to confusion in the bedroom, especially for women
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My Grandma Ella used to believe all life’s problems could be solved with WD40. Got a creaky door? Get the WD40. Window stuck? WD40 to save the day. She even tried to convince me to WD40 my entire car to prevent rust.
I was thinking about my Grandma Ella’s beloved WD40 and vaginas yesterday when I came to the astute (and slightly high) conclusion that lube is WD40 for your body. Unfortunately, unlike creaky doors, an unlubricated vagina doesn’t mean there is a rusty problem.
Wetness is not a sign of arousal. It can be. But not always.
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